Date Nights

Perhaps you haven’t had a date in a while, or you’re feeling a little out of sync with your spouse. Or maybe you’re in a good season, and you’re looking to enhance your connection!

Great news! You are invited to Savoring & Senses, a romantic date night experience crafted for mindful connection.

Over approximately one hour and thirty minutes, you will enjoy date cards with prompts that entwine sensory awareness with concepts loosely based on the book Total Intimacy: A Guide to Loving by Color by Deborah Neel Dr. Doug Rosenau.

Date: Saturday, February 15, 2020

Time: 7:00 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. 

Location: Building Intimate Marriages

Cost: $50 per couple

General Attendees:

R.S.V.P. by Saturday, February 8

Private Groups:

Want to reserve a full date night experience for your private group? Email

Frequently Asked Questions

What can I expect during Savoring & Senses?
The evening will begin with you and the other couples gathering in our common area so that your host may explain the flow of the evening.

From here, you will be assigned to your first sensory room. Within this room, you will find several date cards coded by they type of sensual/connecting experience: green for friendly intrigue, purple for playful romance, and orange for safe, sensual pursuit (this format is loosely based on content in Total Intimacy: a Guide to Loving by Color). You and your partner can complete as many or as few of the connection cards as you choose. Please note that the cards will not include any prompts inappropriate for an out-of-home setting.

After fifteen to twenty minutes, your host will knock on the door to signal that it is time to transition to your next room. Once all five rooms have been experienced, you will be released to continue your evening elsewhere.

Do I have to register prior to the event?

Due to limited space and in order to prepare all associated materials, we ask that you register and pay for your day night prior to the October 20th deadline.

What attire should I wear to the event?
Whatever you’d like!

While the environment will be decorated in a comfortable and aesthetically-romantic manner, we encourage you to make the evening your own. If you and your partner enjoy wearing sweat pants and t-shirts in order to connect, please do! If you would like to have a fancy night out, feel free to indulge in semi-formal attire.

Will my partner and I be interacting with other couples?
Your host will gather the attending couples together at the beginning to explain the course of the event.

However, after this initial overview, you and your partner will be alone for the remainder of the evening as you transition through the five sensory rooms. Your host will be nearby if you have any questions and to signal your transition to the next room, but you will complete the evening in privacy.

If you have any further questions about the format, please contact your host, Sade Ferrier directly:

Where can I learn more about Total Intimacy: A Guide to Loving by Color?
If you are interested in learning more about the spectrum of colors indicating varying levels of intimacy, you may purchase Total Intimacy: A Guide to Loving by Color here.