Recommended Reading
A curated list of books to help address common trouble areas areas in marriage and relationships.
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General Problem Solving
by Clifford & Joyce Penner (2016)
An excellent updated guide for couples wanting a step-by-step manual for solving sexual issues in their marriage. Written from a Christian perspective, chapters on arousal, orgasm, and overall satisfaction (among others) help address most sexual problems couples face. Also great for couples seeking to restore from damage.
General Problem Solving
by Douglas Rosenau (2002)
A great manual for couples. The first few chapters cover the basics with the balance of the book containing chapters that address how to overcome common sexual problems couples experience.
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Sexual Addiction
by Wendy Maltz (2009)
Maltz does a great job of pointing out both the damage porn does and give initial steps toward recovering (individually and as a couple) from the damage of porn. Not written from a Christian perspective, but an excellent book for those seeking to understand this issue.
Sexual Addiction
by Mark Laaser (2004)
A must read book if you suspect or know you might be dealing with sexual addiction or sexual compulsivity. Dr. Laaser approaches the subject through his own story and the wisdom of many years helping individuals heal from sexual addiction. Both his pastoral heart and clinical expertise is evident in how he integrates faith, research and experience. Wives should consider his wife’s companion Shattered Vows.
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Wives of Sex Addicts
by Debra Laaser (2008)
Using her personal story and the stories of hundreds of wives she has helped, Debra Laaser provides hope and guidance to wives of sex addicted husbands. Read her husbands story in his book (also on this page).
Wives of Sex Addicts
by Sheri Keffer (2018)
Covering recovery from any spousal sexual wounding including pornography use or infidelity Intimate Deception walks wives through pain into recovery. She discusses the impact to mind, body, and spirit providing practical helps for issues like triggers and guilt.
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Sexual Pain
by Goldstein, A., Pukall, C. F., & Goldstein, I. (2011)
For any wife experiencing pain during sex. This book will help you diagnose the type and cause of pain and identify potential help. Will also help you find physicians and physical therapists who can help.
Erectile Dysfunction
by Michael Metz & Barry McCarthy (2004)
A guide designed to help couples work together to overcome problems from Erectile Dysfunction.
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Premature Ejaculation
by Michael Metz & Barry McCarthy (2004)
A guide designed to help couples work together to overcome problems from Premature Ejaculation.
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