Getting to the heart of relationships.


Providing counsel in the [stuck] points of life.


Workshops, seminars, and teaching that transform.


Raising others to provide care.

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We have a great group of professional counselors, therapists, and support staff who are dedicated to assisting you. We invite you to come meet us.

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Our staff regularly write articles that may be of value to you and your life. We invite you to check back often or to join our email list to receive notice of new articles.

The Good News About Marriage

Would your view of marriage change if you knew the following were true? The actual divorce rate has never gotten close to 50 percent. Those who attend church regularly have a significantly lower divorce rate than those who don’t. Most marriages are happy. Simple...

Are You Cultivating Good Relationship Soil?

For most of human history, we have been personally tied to the land we live on as a source of sustenance. In this modern age, advancements in technology have all but severed this connection. While there is a move back to more locally grown food, chances are the food...

Empower Your Marriage with Grace

It can be difficult to know how to respond when our spouse’s actions negatively affect us. We want to be gracious people, as God has been gracious to us, but we also don’t want our grace to be taken advantage of and used as an excuse for our spouse to continue...

Balancing Closeness and Togetherness in Relationships

Many couples seek counseling to increase intimacy and feelings of closeness and connection. Likewise, these couples often report difficulty in the area of sexual desire, in particular, tension due to differing levels of sexual desire. Interesting to note, scholars and...

When She has the Stronger Drive

This article was written for my friend Shaunti Feldhahn's website - It is copied here but I recommend you also view it and the comments on her website. While there, sign up for her email list.  - Dr. Mike   When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive; Part One....

Thoughts on Desire, Sin, Affairs and Being Deceived…

Some thoughts on desire, sin, affairs and being deceived while reading the book of James... About 70% of my therapy load involves post-affair couples. One, or both, of the spouses have had an affair and they are in my office, at least in part, to restore their...

Where do You Choose to Fail?

I read an article a few years ago that looked at time management. The authors had calculated the amount of time it would take to complete everything we are told to do. They determined it would take someone over 30 hours to complete all the important daily tasks...


Our counselors and therapists are professionally trained to provide a high level of care.

Marriage Counseling

While over 70% of counselors say they provide couples counseling, only 11% have specific training in providing help for couple issues. Our counselors are specially trained in providing a high level of care. Your marriage is worth it.

Discernment Counseling

Discernment Counseling is a research based approach to helping couples where one (or both) of you are questioning the commitment to stay married and one (or both) of you aren’t sure you have the motivation to work hard in marriage counseling to fix your problems.

BEFORE Premarital Counseling

Be for your marriage by seeking guidance before the wedding. Our unique research based premarital program provides insight and tools designed to help you establish a strong foundation. For yourself or a couple you care about.

Group Therapy

Working on our issues in a small group of others who have similar issues while guided by professional counselors has proven to be highly effective for experiencing change for a number of issues – often more effective than individual or couples counseling. Come explore the many options we have for group therapy.

Sex Therapy

It can be difficult to find trusted help when we have questions, concerns, or problems with sexuality. Our counselors are specially trained to help you with your sexual concerns – desire, pain, frequency, function, identity, trauma…

Individual Counseling

Often we just need some guidance for ourselves. Whether it is divorce recovery, help with grief, struggling with identity, depression, anxiety or difficulty managing our thoughts or behavior. We’d love to help you find success in your journey.

Teaching to help you grow your marriage.

In addition to speaking for local groups, we also offer a couple standard workshops.

We invite you to contact us if you are looking for a speaker for a local event.

Try This at Home

Not yet ready for counseling but looking for ideas to improve your marriage? Give these exercises a try.