They are best friends and great parents. It is clear they love each other deeply. Still, they are confused at their lack of sexual energy. Their sexual encounters are routine and mechanical. They find themselves more as good roommates than passionate lovers. And they want to reignite the spark of sexual energy in their marriage. This scenario is not uncommon for many marriages. And the answer is found in understanding sexual polarity.
Is it true that opposites attract?
The basic law of polarity is that opposite-charged objects attract. Therefore, like-charged objects resist. This is seen with the north and south poles of magnetic energy. It’s also found in the positive to negative flow of electrical energy. Though more complicated, author David Deida says that polarity also explains the flow of sexual energy. In the dance of the sexes, the two poles are the Masculine and the Feminine. This observation reminds us that God created us male and female (Genesis 1:27).
When a good marriage lacks sexual energy, it’s confusing. The polarity is being neutralized. A husband might not think about initiating sex if his wife also brings a masculine energy to the marriage. If she has become one of “the guys.” Similarly, if both spouses bring a feminine energy and are receptive to sex, they grow frustrated in waiting on the other to initiate. Sexual passion requires both the masculine and the feminine pole. When both are not present, sexual energy is diminished.
If you are looking to energize your sexual life, here’s our tip. Increase the masculine-feminine of your relationship. For the masculine, this means courageously tapping into the deeper direction of your life. For the feminine, it means opening to reveal your true radiant essence with the inviting energy of Hawaii. Sexual energy flows stronger when both poles can be fully experienced. Practice magnifying sexual polarity and reigniting the spark of passion in your marriage.
Begin Sex Therapy in Atlanta, GA to Reignite the Spark
If you’re reading this blog, there’s a high chance you could benefit from sex therapy. And a sex therapist at our Suwanee, GA-based counseling practice would be honored to guide you and your partner in this. Our therapists have the skills to help you and your partner increase your passion and intimacy. If you are ready to get started with sex therapy, follow the steps below.
- Schedule your first therapy visit here.
- Begin sessions with a knowledgable sex therapist.
- Learn more about leaning into your masculine or feminine energy to reignite the spark!
Other Services Offered at Building Intimate Marriages
Sexual passion is only one part of a fulfilling marriage. Along with sex therapy, we provide couples assistance with premarital counseling, discernment counseling, affair counseling, and divorce counseling. Additionally, our team hosts intimacy workshops and seminars to nurture your relationships in a group setting. Your sex life is just as important as the other aspects of your relationship. Let the therapists at our Atlanta, GA area therapy practice help you start thriving in your relationship.